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When Tears Leave Scars
When you're in the middle of a painful relationship, it can be hard to trust your own thoughts, feelings, and instincts. This book was written to help you understand what you're experiencing, validate what you've been through, and remind you that you're not crazy, broken, or alone.
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In this course, you'll learn why you feel so torn between what you know and what you feel, rebuild trust in yourself and your intuition, gain clarity in the midst of confusion and emotional chaos. You will better understand the attachment that's keeping you connected, and begin to see your relationship more clearly so you can make decisions from a place of confidence rather than fear.
"I purchased this course because I was completely stuck. Every day I changed my mind. One minute I was convinced I needed to leave, and the next I was sure I was overreacting and needed to try harder. I felt exhausted, confused, and unable to trust myself.
What I loved most about this course was that Allison never told me what decision to make. Instead, she helped me understand what was actually happening, why I felt so torn, and how to reconnect with my own intuition. For the first time in a long time, I stopped looking outside of myself for answers.
Whether you ultimately stay or leave, this course gives you something incredibly valuable: clarity. I finished feeling calmer, more confident, and able to make decisions based on what was truly right for me instead of fear, guilt, or confusion."
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"I LOVED this book. It was so relatable in many ways for me. Allison's story shows how covert and insidious emotional abuse can be. Little things that individually go unnoticed but gradually have a massive effect on someone going through this. How we can't always see what is really happening to us until we're picking ourselves up off the floor wondering how we got here. I was able to read her story and see things in my own life that I never realized impacted me. Emotional abuse is real and it leaves it's victims as shells of who they used to be. Allison's memoir will help you put the pieces together and see things for how they really are. When Tears Leave Scars is a great read, I couldn't put it down. You won't be disappointed. Thank you Allison for sharing ypur story in the hopes to help someone else and to let anyone going through emotional abuse know that they are not alone. Validation is something all victims need and your book gave me that."
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"This podcast has a way of getting you to start reframing your thinking about being in an unhealthy or abusive relationship. Allison uses the concept of subconscious reprogramming to begin shifting patterns, and it is powerful! She also has a really kind way of letting you know you aren't to blame, no matter where you happen to be in the course of the relationship—whether you're still in it, freshly out, or have been out for a while. Her podcast is a lifeline of reassurance, encouragement, and support."
-Heather Briggand